Dan Savage is a pretty cool dude

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Dan Savage is widely known as the author of the advice column Savage Love, but he's also a very funny and engaging speaker.  I came across this video today:





I think he makes some really good points: we all decide to tolerate the flaws in our loved ones.  We might nag them about them and hope they change, or we might just stay quiet and deal with it to spare their feelings. But when you start thinking about those little things you hate as just the price of admission to a beautiful relationship, you can take a measure of joy in them instead of treating them as a burden.

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